1. Let people know you are single and looking to meet someone new.
It’s the perfect time of year to broadcast to your friends that you single and searching and that you are more than willing to accompany another single person to a holiday event should they need a date. Announce to your family that you’re single this holiday season, and because of that, you might very well invite someone to the festivities who is also single but doesn’t have family living close by to celebrate with. In the end, get the word out and expand your social network.
2. Accept every holiday invitation.
Unless a holiday party is a challenge to get to or you know an “ex” will be present, make a point of accepting every holiday invitation that comes your way – no matter how unusual, farfetched or random. In fact, the more events you attend the more comfortable you will become to step outside of your safety zone and expose yourself to new groups of people.
3. Be prepared for spontaneous holiday cheer.
As a single person, it may be assumed that your calendar is much more flexible than a parent with three kids. Therefore it may not be uncommon for someone like yourself to receive last-minute invites to holiday functions. Make sure you have one or two holiday outfits ready to wear that are clean, appropriate and festive.
4. Reconnect with old friends, and/or bring a date to an event.
If you must have a date for an event, it is perfectly fine to consider an old friend or someone you know that is also single and searching. The evening can be a fun way to stroll around and socialize. Tell your single friend that you’ll be game to be their “date” for the next holiday gathering s/he might be invited to. It’s a great way to network and meet new people!
5. Plan for mistletoe and stolen kisses.
If you are single, there is no harm in hanging around the Mistletoe. This way, you can strike up a conversation about the silly mistletoe tradition and even cop a few great kisses! While many of the recipients may not be what you’re looking for, you never know….. people meet in the strangest places and you might just like someone that has been strolling around throughout the night. Hopefully, you can make eye contact with them and get them to walk over to your locale….under the mistletoe!
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Holiday Dating Dilemmas
1. Gifts With holiday dating, the issue of whether or not to exchange gifts can be confusing. If you’re dating casually, you shouldn’t feel obligated to give a gift just because it’s the holidays.
However, if you feel you would like to give your date something thoughtful, keep it inexpensive but something they would appreciate. It’s good to pay attention to what he likes, so that he will know you care, and that you put some thought into your gift: perhaps a book on a special topic she discussed or a bottle of scotch that he has boosted about.
Another great gift idea is pre-arranging a future date together– whether it be tickets to a play or ball game or an evening of skating in the park. Remember, certain gifts are going to imply certain intentions. Giving your gal lingerie will certainly hint at the idea that you’re looking for a more sexual relationship, which may be great or awkward. Be careful about splurging for gifts dealing with grooming or exercise as they may backfire and cause your date to believe that you are dissatisfied with the way they look and want to change them.
2. Family Gatherings
When contemplating inviting a date to a family gathering, first consider whether an extra guest is welcome. Is there room at the dinner table and will your family feel comfortable with a virtual stranger joining them?
The nature of the gathering can also determine the appropriateness of inviting someone special. If it’s a cocktail party with extended family and close friends, then a date will be appropriate. However, if it’s an intimate gift exchange amongst siblings than perhaps inviting your friend later would be a better bet.
Consider your date’s feelings too. Will s/he feel comfortable with off-key family Christmas caroling or being asked my your nosy aunt when you two will be getting married because you “look so adorable together.”
3. The Office Party
With dinner, drinks, and dancing, why not bring along someone to share in the fun? Having a date can also prevent a potentially embarrassing interoffice hook-up. However, turning an office party into an opportunity for holiday dating presents a few concerns similar to family gatherings.
Are dates welcome at the event? If your company is budget-conscious, they may not allow dates to come. Will your date enjoy spending time with your co-workers? Since you’re the only one s/he knows, it’s especially important to make sure you don’t abandon your date during the evening.
4. Differing Beliefs
If you’re seeing someone that has a different religious belief, holiday dating can highlight conflicts in your spiritual thought process/beliefs. The key to avoiding problems is to be open and honest about your comfort level at all times.
Don’t feel obligated to go to your date’s house of worship if you feel uncomfortable partaking in the religious rituals. As long as you are open and communicate your concerns you both can have a better time getting through the holiday season. It may also allow you the opportunity to see if you are both compatible in this area and if your relationship has the potential to last.
5. Work, Work And More Work
If you find that the case you are working on or the budget deal is cutting into your personal life, hopefully you can steal away and attend at least one gathering that will be meaningful this holiday season.
A lot of busy professionals find themselves working against the clock to finish projects before the chime strikes twelve on New Years and we are now into another tax year. Try to pace it, get your sleep but find some balance between work and play–it’s important for your mental sanity as well as your emotional well being.
However, if you feel you would like to give your date something thoughtful, keep it inexpensive but something they would appreciate. It’s good to pay attention to what he likes, so that he will know you care, and that you put some thought into your gift: perhaps a book on a special topic she discussed or a bottle of scotch that he has boosted about.
Another great gift idea is pre-arranging a future date together– whether it be tickets to a play or ball game or an evening of skating in the park. Remember, certain gifts are going to imply certain intentions. Giving your gal lingerie will certainly hint at the idea that you’re looking for a more sexual relationship, which may be great or awkward. Be careful about splurging for gifts dealing with grooming or exercise as they may backfire and cause your date to believe that you are dissatisfied with the way they look and want to change them.
2. Family Gatherings
When contemplating inviting a date to a family gathering, first consider whether an extra guest is welcome. Is there room at the dinner table and will your family feel comfortable with a virtual stranger joining them?
The nature of the gathering can also determine the appropriateness of inviting someone special. If it’s a cocktail party with extended family and close friends, then a date will be appropriate. However, if it’s an intimate gift exchange amongst siblings than perhaps inviting your friend later would be a better bet.
Consider your date’s feelings too. Will s/he feel comfortable with off-key family Christmas caroling or being asked my your nosy aunt when you two will be getting married because you “look so adorable together.”
3. The Office Party
With dinner, drinks, and dancing, why not bring along someone to share in the fun? Having a date can also prevent a potentially embarrassing interoffice hook-up. However, turning an office party into an opportunity for holiday dating presents a few concerns similar to family gatherings.
Are dates welcome at the event? If your company is budget-conscious, they may not allow dates to come. Will your date enjoy spending time with your co-workers? Since you’re the only one s/he knows, it’s especially important to make sure you don’t abandon your date during the evening.
4. Differing Beliefs
If you’re seeing someone that has a different religious belief, holiday dating can highlight conflicts in your spiritual thought process/beliefs. The key to avoiding problems is to be open and honest about your comfort level at all times.
Don’t feel obligated to go to your date’s house of worship if you feel uncomfortable partaking in the religious rituals. As long as you are open and communicate your concerns you both can have a better time getting through the holiday season. It may also allow you the opportunity to see if you are both compatible in this area and if your relationship has the potential to last.
5. Work, Work And More Work
If you find that the case you are working on or the budget deal is cutting into your personal life, hopefully you can steal away and attend at least one gathering that will be meaningful this holiday season.
A lot of busy professionals find themselves working against the clock to finish projects before the chime strikes twelve on New Years and we are now into another tax year. Try to pace it, get your sleep but find some balance between work and play–it’s important for your mental sanity as well as your emotional well being.
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Little Lost Sex Drive
I came across dis article n found it very informative =)
A woman’s libido can be a slippery little sucker and cause a low sex drive in women. Unlike men with decreased libidos, who often respond to a little vitamin V (Viagra), women’s needs go deeper. After ignoring women’s sexual needs for decades, pharmaceutical companies are finally paying attention, trying to make big bucks marketing a magic pill to turn us on. So far, studies show that no single thing gets us in the mood. While drawing blood flow to the penis usually does the trick to turn on a man, increasing blood flow to the clitoris or vagina doesn’t necessarily do the trick in women. Our needs tend to be more complex.
Here are some tips I recommend to my patients:
1) Schedule sex dates. If you’re up late doing the dishes, doing the laundry, and doing the children’s homework, you won’t feel like doing your lover. Plan ahead and make it happen.
2) Fake it ‘til you make it. Not that you should ever fake orgasm (I highly recommend against doing so), but going through the motions of being sexual can get your juices flowing, even when you’re not in the mood.
3) Buy the book 101 Nights of Greaaat Sex by Laura Corn – and use it. It’s filled with tear-out pages of sexy seduction scenes For Him or For Her. It works every time, if you’re daring enough to be a little naughty.
4) Experiment with erotic movies, books or magazines. Send your inner critic to time out and see how you feel. Keep an open mind.
5) Invite some sex toys into the bedroom. If you usually keep your vibrator in the bottom drawer, under a pile of magazines, yank it out and welcome it intoplaytime with your partner. If you’ve never experimented with sex toys before, consider going shopping.
6) See your doctor. A battery of tests can look for reversible causes that can be addressed. You might also consider a trial of hormone replacement therapy. While studies to support its use are limited, some patients report improvement in their libido when using low dose testosterone replacement. If your estrogen and progesterone levels are low, as they are in menopause and may also be premenopausally, you may benefit from replacing these hormones as well. Talk to your doctor about the risks and benefits if you’re interested in exploring how hormones might help your sex life.
A woman’s libido can be a slippery little sucker and cause a low sex drive in women. Unlike men with decreased libidos, who often respond to a little vitamin V (Viagra), women’s needs go deeper. After ignoring women’s sexual needs for decades, pharmaceutical companies are finally paying attention, trying to make big bucks marketing a magic pill to turn us on. So far, studies show that no single thing gets us in the mood. While drawing blood flow to the penis usually does the trick to turn on a man, increasing blood flow to the clitoris or vagina doesn’t necessarily do the trick in women. Our needs tend to be more complex.
Here are some tips I recommend to my patients:
1) Schedule sex dates. If you’re up late doing the dishes, doing the laundry, and doing the children’s homework, you won’t feel like doing your lover. Plan ahead and make it happen.
2) Fake it ‘til you make it. Not that you should ever fake orgasm (I highly recommend against doing so), but going through the motions of being sexual can get your juices flowing, even when you’re not in the mood.
3) Buy the book 101 Nights of Greaaat Sex by Laura Corn – and use it. It’s filled with tear-out pages of sexy seduction scenes For Him or For Her. It works every time, if you’re daring enough to be a little naughty.
4) Experiment with erotic movies, books or magazines. Send your inner critic to time out and see how you feel. Keep an open mind.
5) Invite some sex toys into the bedroom. If you usually keep your vibrator in the bottom drawer, under a pile of magazines, yank it out and welcome it into
6) See your doctor. A battery of tests can look for reversible causes that can be addressed. You might also consider a trial of hormone replacement therapy. While studies to support its use are limited, some patients report improvement in their libido when using low dose testosterone replacement. If your estrogen and progesterone levels are low, as they are in menopause and may also be premenopausally, you may benefit from replacing these hormones as well. Talk to your doctor about the risks and benefits if you’re interested in exploring how hormones might help your sex life.
Monday, September 13, 2010
Article ~ How to Stop Attracting Negative People to Your Life
Placing your attention, energy and focus on the negative aspects of some people in your life brings you more of the same. Simply put, that’s the Law of Attraction at work.
When you shift your attention to the kinds of people you DO want in your life, that shift, coupled with your clear desire to STOP attracting negative people into your life, will set the energy in motion for new results to show up. When you shift from what you don’t want, to what you do want, your vibration changes. And know this-you can only hold one vibration at a time! The Law of Attraction is always matching your vibration in any given moment.
The Law of Attraction can be used to ensure that you are always in vibrational harmony with the people you are attracting into your life. If you plot your vibration on a scale that measures from 1-100, with 100 being the highest calibration, you are currently attracting other people into your life that match your score on this scale. In other words, if your vibration measures 75 on this scale and a person in your life measures closely to that, you are a close vibrational match. It is also important to realize that if your vibration measures 30 on this scale, you are a close match to another person whose vibration is at 30.
Your feelings always tell you if you are in vibrational harmony with another person. When you meet someone who is offering a significantly lower vibration than yours, you often feel dragged down by that person, i.e. the experience just doesn’t feel good. On the other hand, when you are with someone who vibrates closely to your score, it feels good to be with them. You are in vibrational harmony with that person. Suppose you are the one with the much lower vibration. If you experience a person with a significantly higher vibration, you may feel uplifted and raise your vibe to match theirs, or you may feel uncomfortable being around them. In short, the distance between your score and the score of another person, equals the extent to which it doesn’t feel good. We call that resistance. The greater difference in the scores, the greater resistance there is.
Here’s a great tool to help you next time you experience a negative person in your life. While you are having a conversation with that person; perhaps listening to them describe (in great detail) what they don’t want and how negative their life is, ask them the following question: “So, what do you want? How would you like it to be different?” In their response, they will stop talking about what they don’t want, and start talking about what they do want. In that very moment, their vibration will shift and they’ll start raising their vibration to match yours.
Remember too, people treat you the way you allow them. In Law of Attraction, this means that you can set your vibrational boundaries so that you will only participate in and maintain positive conversations. Feeding into somebody’s negative conversation will bring your vibration down. Decide today to maintain your high vibration and stop feeding into other people’s negative vibes. This will go a long way to maintaining your high, positive vibration, which will in turn, attract other people with high, positive vibrations into your life.
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Can you stop your brain from thinking?
Every single second of the day
Our mind keeps rolling
Eyes staring at an object
Breathing long and hard
To think deeply
It happens mostly when the surroundings are quiet
Where no one is talking to you
Not even the noise of a mosquito
But just feeling your own heartbeat
Whenever I kept myself quiet
I am thinking
Whenever I am alone
I am thinking
Whenever I go to bed
I am thinking
And whenever I have fell asleep
My mind is still moving
Have your brain ever stop from thinking?
I faced difficulties in controlling my mind
As I have tonnes of issues to think of
Every single day
Without a miss
I trust that I am over-concerned sometimes
Though I knew that I should not worry
On things that will never change
As it is pointless
Even I have become insane
I am learning to be calm
Trying to be cool at things
That subsequently will affect my mood
Some people says I am very emotional
Yes, women indeed are the same human kind
But don't forget that men do cry
And I experienced it myself
I used to cry very often
As I felt hard to keep things
Deep inside my heart
And it keeps running through my mind
As if it had just happened yesterday
I shed a tear when I upset
I cry when I am sad
I shout when I am frustrated
And I kept quiet when I am deeply hurt
Just because my mind couldn’t stop from thinking
Our mind keeps rolling
Eyes staring at an object
Breathing long and hard
To think deeply
It happens mostly when the surroundings are quiet
Where no one is talking to you
Not even the noise of a mosquito
But just feeling your own heartbeat
Whenever I kept myself quiet
I am thinking
Whenever I am alone
I am thinking
Whenever I go to bed
I am thinking
And whenever I have fell asleep
My mind is still moving
Have your brain ever stop from thinking?
I faced difficulties in controlling my mind
As I have tonnes of issues to think of
Every single day
Without a miss
I trust that I am over-concerned sometimes
Though I knew that I should not worry
On things that will never change
As it is pointless
Even I have become insane
I am learning to be calm
Trying to be cool at things
That subsequently will affect my mood
Some people says I am very emotional
Yes, women indeed are the same human kind
But don't forget that men do cry
And I experienced it myself
I used to cry very often
As I felt hard to keep things
Deep inside my heart
And it keeps running through my mind
As if it had just happened yesterday
I shed a tear when I upset
I cry when I am sad
I shout when I am frustrated
And I kept quiet when I am deeply hurt
Just because my mind couldn’t stop from thinking
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Sharing of thoughts
When two hearts are in one
We tend to share feelings
When he is happy, she will be happy
And when he is upset, eventually she would be sad too
Loving a person doesn't mean possession
As there are obstacles ahead
That God wants to test
To affirm that the love is pure and real
Seeing your loved one with another man / woman
How would you feel?
Happy for them
Hoping that they can find their happiness
But deeply inside, badly hurt
For not being together to share the happy moments
Because we trust that we can do better
And if we love each other, why not?
Its the decision
Or is it just blamed as Fate?
I trust that we have the right to choose
We can make our own decisions
Though I do believe in fate
That God has made an arrangement for us
Hope for a better tomorrow
As the right time will come
With the right person
Just be patient and everything shall be alright
We tend to share feelings
When he is happy, she will be happy
And when he is upset, eventually she would be sad too
Loving a person doesn't mean possession
As there are obstacles ahead
That God wants to test
To affirm that the love is pure and real
Seeing your loved one with another man / woman
How would you feel?
Happy for them
Hoping that they can find their happiness
But deeply inside, badly hurt
For not being together to share the happy moments
Because we trust that we can do better
And if we love each other, why not?
Its the decision
Or is it just blamed as Fate?
I trust that we have the right to choose
We can make our own decisions
Though I do believe in fate
That God has made an arrangement for us
Hope for a better tomorrow
As the right time will come
With the right person
Just be patient and everything shall be alright
Boyfriend blueprint
After several years of searching
After several years of dating
Why I still haven't found the right guy?
Perhaps I should make a new boyfriend wish list?
What's your mental blueprint or Mr. Perfection?
Some says outlook
And some says inner value
How about starting with a must-have list?
Honest
Observant
Sense of humour
Understanding
Matured
Craving for this type of guy doesn't mean he is good for me
CLEO says I have repeatedly go for men
Who is cloned of each other
And I ended up being solo again on a Sat night
Its time to wake up
Analysing guys I have dated
The common value in them
Dominating or obsessed with me
Strong and silent man
Is averagely suitable for being strong in his belief
Confident and decision-maker
But I faced difficulties in guessing what is in his mind
I prefer a man who can share
As I always wanted to be a part of his life
Sharing the happy and unhappy moments
Because I trust the power of love
Of two person who has combined their hearts
Smooth sweet-talker
Is very common for men
As every woman likes to be praised
Making us walking on air and feeling sexy
Sadly, they are fast movers
Come fast and and disappear fast too
Getting non-genuine compliments are meaningless
Like being rehearsed for million times
Now where is the respect?
Wild and unpredictable
Are those who hates routine and loves adventure
But at least we enjoy life
I am doing something that makes myself happy
Enjoying every moments
Isn't it wrong?
Artistic and bohemian
Men who write poems or songs
Impressed me tentatively
For his effort, creativity and patience
As it is not an easy task to perform
Love is patient
Love is kind
Love is not jealous
I am loving myself first before loving others!
After several years of dating
Why I still haven't found the right guy?
Perhaps I should make a new boyfriend wish list?
What's your mental blueprint or Mr. Perfection?
Some says outlook
And some says inner value
How about starting with a must-have list?
Honest
Observant
Sense of humour
Understanding
Matured
Craving for this type of guy doesn't mean he is good for me
CLEO says I have repeatedly go for men
Who is cloned of each other
And I ended up being solo again on a Sat night
Its time to wake up
Analysing guys I have dated
The common value in them
Dominating or obsessed with me
Strong and silent man
Is averagely suitable for being strong in his belief
Confident and decision-maker
But I faced difficulties in guessing what is in his mind
I prefer a man who can share
As I always wanted to be a part of his life
Sharing the happy and unhappy moments
Because I trust the power of love
Of two person who has combined their hearts
Smooth sweet-talker
Is very common for men
As every woman likes to be praised
Making us walking on air and feeling sexy
Sadly, they are fast movers
Come fast and and disappear fast too
Getting non-genuine compliments are meaningless
Like being rehearsed for million times
Now where is the respect?
Wild and unpredictable
Are those who hates routine and loves adventure
But at least we enjoy life
I am doing something that makes myself happy
Enjoying every moments
Isn't it wrong?
Artistic and bohemian
Men who write poems or songs
Impressed me tentatively
For his effort, creativity and patience
As it is not an easy task to perform
Love is patient
Love is kind
Love is not jealous
I am loving myself first before loving others!
Surprises
Life is like a bed of roses
Varieties of colours
That are of different meanings
I have received Red, Pink and Lavender
Red means Sincere Love & Respect, Courage & Passion
Pink means Grace and Gentility, the rose of sweet thoughts
Lavender means Love at first sight and enchantment
In terms of the quantity, I have received the following:-
1 Rose - Love at the first sight; you are the one
3 Roses - I love you
11 Roses - You are my treasured one; the one I love most in my life
12 Roses - Be my steady
Though we tend to tell men
Don't waste their money for flowers
It will die the next day or two
Eventually our love will die too
But how many women out there don't like flowers?
I believe that it would be very sweet
When the unexpected did happened
Sometimes there are things that we don't really expect
Yes, I mean no expectation at all
And this is what I called "surprise"
Sometimes we expect things to happen
Eventually it did not
You start to feel upset
Asking why it doesn't
Asking why he doesn't understand
Is he not thinking?
Or he doesn't bother at all?
Don't hope
Don't be too confident
And don't overestimate
Then you will feel better
As people says "the more you hope, the more you upset"
Somehow it does make sense
I won't be surprised
Most of the times
Not too sure whether man's thought is way too simple
Or whether I am too smart in foreseeing things
But I love unexpected surprises
Men tend to act first
As the outcome is not an important issue
Women tend to analyse
As the pros and cons have to be considered before deciding
It is just like shopping
Men will buy the things they like at their first sight
Without comparing or further analysis
Women will need to shop almost all the shops
Thorough analysis has to be done before deciding
Because "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus"
Varieties of colours
That are of different meanings
I have received Red, Pink and Lavender
Red means Sincere Love & Respect, Courage & Passion
Pink means Grace and Gentility, the rose of sweet thoughts
Lavender means Love at first sight and enchantment
In terms of the quantity, I have received the following:-
1 Rose - Love at the first sight; you are the one
3 Roses - I love you
11 Roses - You are my treasured one; the one I love most in my life
12 Roses - Be my steady
Though we tend to tell men
Don't waste their money for flowers
It will die the next day or two
Eventually our love will die too
But how many women out there don't like flowers?
I believe that it would be very sweet
When the unexpected did happened
Sometimes there are things that we don't really expect
Yes, I mean no expectation at all
And this is what I called "surprise"
Sometimes we expect things to happen
Eventually it did not
You start to feel upset
Asking why it doesn't
Asking why he doesn't understand
Is he not thinking?
Or he doesn't bother at all?
Don't hope
Don't be too confident
And don't overestimate
Then you will feel better
As people says "the more you hope, the more you upset"
Somehow it does make sense
I won't be surprised
Most of the times
Not too sure whether man's thought is way too simple
Or whether I am too smart in foreseeing things
But I love unexpected surprises
Men tend to act first
As the outcome is not an important issue
Women tend to analyse
As the pros and cons have to be considered before deciding
It is just like shopping
Men will buy the things they like at their first sight
Without comparing or further analysis
Women will need to shop almost all the shops
Thorough analysis has to be done before deciding
Because "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus"
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Sixth sense
Do you believe that woman has sixth sense?
How true is it?
Why are we having the supernatural power?
Or is it just superstitious?
My first time ever bad experience this morning
Has ring my bell
To be extra alert whenever I am alone
Which I always do
Stories of robberies, harassment and even murder
Are the main issues of the daily press?
Reading the news has alerted me
Experience it myself has worsen the situation
Taking taxi every morning to the LRT
Has been a common topic
Of taking down taxi number plates
And alert at all times
The Chinese taxi driver at his 40s
Picked and send me to the LRT
He was active, friendly and talkative
Sharing on general issues and his wife
Asking on my job and my hometown
Was okay for me all this while
It was bad when he started talking in his jargon
That he has to be aggressive to get me on the taxi
That he has to look into my eyes to know what I am thinking
And got me in his taxi eventually
I was freaked out
As I am fear that he will really put his words into action
Upon reaching my destination, he complimented a lady passerby
“Gosh, this is super big size”
What a pervert!
I don’t mind if you keep this to yourself but not to me
I relieved and got down immediately when I reach
I was late for work as usual
Due to the habit of oversleeping
And preparing myself in a slow motion mode
Each and every morning
Once I got down from the LRT
I walked towards my office
Where I have to pass by a bridge
And cross the road to get to the opposite road
When I was walking across the bridge
Listening to my musics
I noticed an old Malay guy aged at his 40s
Staring at me while walking towards me
His wicked smile scares me off
I sense that he wanted to touch me
With the action of hugging me with his both hands
Holy s*, it was a disaster
I screamed so loud and ran off
I am sure that my voice is really loud
That also scares him off
The other two ladies ahead of the bridge looked at me
And they are being frightened too
I was holding my heart tight
Telling myself to calm down
And I breathe hard
First thing I do is texting my close friends
I can only think 3 of them
As I don’t really think I should have share
Or maybe scare my friends off
But I have no one
Nobody to talk to
So I texted A, B and C.
A replied me saying that he will call me later
B called me straight away to calm me down
And C has no reply until now
Looks like I have no one to depend on
And I always don’t know who to call
At times when I need someone
I was confused and struggling
Whenever people ask me for an emergency number
Is there anyone out there who is willing to?
Fear was in me that I acted spontaneously
It was my first time ever
And I hope that this is the last time as well
Thank God that I am safe!
How true is it?
Why are we having the supernatural power?
Or is it just superstitious?
My first time ever bad experience this morning
Has ring my bell
To be extra alert whenever I am alone
Which I always do
Stories of robberies, harassment and even murder
Are the main issues of the daily press?
Reading the news has alerted me
Experience it myself has worsen the situation
Taking taxi every morning to the LRT
Has been a common topic
Of taking down taxi number plates
And alert at all times
The Chinese taxi driver at his 40s
Picked and send me to the LRT
He was active, friendly and talkative
Sharing on general issues and his wife
Asking on my job and my hometown
Was okay for me all this while
It was bad when he started talking in his jargon
That he has to be aggressive to get me on the taxi
That he has to look into my eyes to know what I am thinking
And got me in his taxi eventually
I was freaked out
As I am fear that he will really put his words into action
Upon reaching my destination, he complimented a lady passerby
“Gosh, this is super big size”
What a pervert!
I don’t mind if you keep this to yourself but not to me
I relieved and got down immediately when I reach
I was late for work as usual
Due to the habit of oversleeping
And preparing myself in a slow motion mode
Each and every morning
Once I got down from the LRT
I walked towards my office
Where I have to pass by a bridge
And cross the road to get to the opposite road
When I was walking across the bridge
Listening to my musics
I noticed an old Malay guy aged at his 40s
Staring at me while walking towards me
His wicked smile scares me off
I sense that he wanted to touch me
With the action of hugging me with his both hands
Holy s*, it was a disaster
I screamed so loud and ran off
I am sure that my voice is really loud
That also scares him off
The other two ladies ahead of the bridge looked at me
And they are being frightened too
I was holding my heart tight
Telling myself to calm down
And I breathe hard
First thing I do is texting my close friends
I can only think 3 of them
As I don’t really think I should have share
Or maybe scare my friends off
But I have no one
Nobody to talk to
So I texted A, B and C.
A replied me saying that he will call me later
B called me straight away to calm me down
And C has no reply until now
Looks like I have no one to depend on
And I always don’t know who to call
At times when I need someone
I was confused and struggling
Whenever people ask me for an emergency number
Is there anyone out there who is willing to?
Fear was in me that I acted spontaneously
It was my first time ever
And I hope that this is the last time as well
Thank God that I am safe!
Sunday, August 8, 2010
How to survive on bad Break-Ups
Everyone in your social circle knew about it
Each and every one of them has an opinion
As to who was at fault, and why
Yes, it hurts
I tend to recall every positive memory
Mourn over what I perceive is lost
And, he's gone
Nothing will bring him back
He was cruel
He was heartless
He wasn't appreciating
And, he wasn't really into me
I do have to get out of my house
Get myself hanged with friends
And yes, guys
Other guys
I trust that sooner or later
I might find a few nice ones
and the misery I experienced would go away
Honesty is my main requirement
To trust oneself and to face the real ME
To assess the problems I faced all the while
Which involved both parties
He's no longer around
He's not changing
He's not going to do anything anymore
So I have to work on it on my own
People tend to remind themselves
Don't repeat the same mistake twice
But how many of you here agree that love is blind?
It does make sense when you are in love
Though life is so wonderful
With passion, hope and joy
With your loved ones and friends
Somehow it ends with ONLY you
Independent comes in to substantiate
Most of the women are strong
After they are deeply hurt
Several times in a row
Learning to stand on my own
Is never an easy task
As I have carry the nickname of "Loner" since the age of 13.
Each and every one of them has an opinion
As to who was at fault, and why
Yes, it hurts
I tend to recall every positive memory
Mourn over what I perceive is lost
And, he's gone
Nothing will bring him back
He was cruel
He was heartless
He wasn't appreciating
And, he wasn't really into me
I do have to get out of my house
Get myself hanged with friends
And yes, guys
Other guys
I trust that sooner or later
I might find a few nice ones
and the misery I experienced would go away
Honesty is my main requirement
To trust oneself and to face the real ME
To assess the problems I faced all the while
Which involved both parties
He's no longer around
He's not changing
He's not going to do anything anymore
So I have to work on it on my own
People tend to remind themselves
Don't repeat the same mistake twice
But how many of you here agree that love is blind?
It does make sense when you are in love
Though life is so wonderful
With passion, hope and joy
With your loved ones and friends
Somehow it ends with ONLY you
Independent comes in to substantiate
Most of the women are strong
After they are deeply hurt
Several times in a row
Learning to stand on my own
Is never an easy task
As I have carry the nickname of "Loner" since the age of 13.
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Purpose of life
I tend to ask myself
Why am I here?
What am I doing?
Have you ever doubt?
I tend to question myself
Why am I doing this?
What exactly I want?
Have you ever feeling lost?
Confused
Indecisive
Lack of confidence
You name it
Sometimes I stop and think
Sometimes I follow my instinct
Sometimes I just move forward
And sometimes I do regret
Every single minute
We need to make decisions
Decisions that may have a great impact
On your friends, families or even on your life
It is always an opportunity cost
To choose from one to another
After many thoughts and comparison
Which may not be accurate afterall
Human being tend to be very emotional
Doing things blindly
Never thought of the consequences
Which may hurt others
What is the purpose of life?
Study for a better job
Work for a better career path
Utilising the money for your own good
Will you forgo everything for money?
WIll you treasure everything that you have?
And will you be appreciated for what you have been doing all this while?
Ask yourself
Why?
Why?
and why?
I trust fate and God's arrangement
Though we need to depend on ourselves
At times where we can't just let things happen
As things happened for a reason
Love yourself
Love your family
Appreciate them
Eventually you will feel relieved
As everything has been prearranged
Where they can live
With or without you
Happily ever after
Why am I here?
What am I doing?
Have you ever doubt?
I tend to question myself
Why am I doing this?
What exactly I want?
Have you ever feeling lost?
Confused
Indecisive
Lack of confidence
You name it
Sometimes I stop and think
Sometimes I follow my instinct
Sometimes I just move forward
And sometimes I do regret
Every single minute
We need to make decisions
Decisions that may have a great impact
On your friends, families or even on your life
It is always an opportunity cost
To choose from one to another
After many thoughts and comparison
Which may not be accurate afterall
Human being tend to be very emotional
Doing things blindly
Never thought of the consequences
Which may hurt others
What is the purpose of life?
Study for a better job
Work for a better career path
Utilising the money for your own good
Will you forgo everything for money?
WIll you treasure everything that you have?
And will you be appreciated for what you have been doing all this while?
Ask yourself
Why?
Why?
and why?
I trust fate and God's arrangement
Though we need to depend on ourselves
At times where we can't just let things happen
As things happened for a reason
Love yourself
Love your family
Appreciate them
Eventually you will feel relieved
As everything has been prearranged
Where they can live
With or without you
Happily ever after
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Appreciation
Life is too short to wake up with regrets
So love the people who treat you right
Love the ones who don't
Just because you can
Believe everything happens for a reason
If you get a second chance
Grab it with both hands
If it changes your life
Let it be
Kiss slowly
Forgive quickly
As God never said life would be easy
He just promised that it would be worth it
Little keys can open big locks
Simple words can express great thoughts
Let us enjoy the great moments
As if there is no tomorrow
So love the people who treat you right
Love the ones who don't
Just because you can
Believe everything happens for a reason
If you get a second chance
Grab it with both hands
If it changes your life
Let it be
Kiss slowly
Forgive quickly
As God never said life would be easy
He just promised that it would be worth it
Little keys can open big locks
Simple words can express great thoughts
Let us enjoy the great moments
As if there is no tomorrow
Monday, August 2, 2010
Gift of love
It's a gift for us to be here in this wonderful world
It's a gift to our parents for us being brought to this reality world
and it's a gift for being a human to learn to survive in this practical world
What's a perfect gift for you?
Flowers?
Chocolates?
or Diamond Ring?
Perfect defines as something that can't be seen or touched
As it can only be felt by heart and soul
Which can't be explained by words
Giving it wholeheartedly
Without the hope of having something in return
That's called "gift of love"
It's a gift to our parents for us being brought to this reality world
and it's a gift for being a human to learn to survive in this practical world
What's a perfect gift for you?
Flowers?
Chocolates?
or Diamond Ring?
Perfect defines as something that can't be seen or touched
As it can only be felt by heart and soul
Which can't be explained by words
Giving it wholeheartedly
Without the hope of having something in return
That's called "gift of love"
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Facing de reality
Knowing that love is magical and unexplainable at times
We tend to be naive that it will last forever
Somehow men expects women to think and women expect men to feel
Honestly, how many of you can do that?
Saying "I do" to be with someone you really love
Promising to take care of them
Affirming to be with them no matter how
But think again and try to look at the divorce rate
A 3-second decision may lead to a disaster
If you ever wonder whether you are right
After several years of arguements
Misperceptions or even comparison
If you are able to sustain love long enough, you will get married
But out of those who stay together, half of it are actually not fulfilled
Staying together out of loyalty and obligation
Never dare to start all over again
Even if they can assure that greater happiness is ahead
What is the meaning of life?
Staying at your comfort zone
Practising your daily chores and routine work
Daily, Weekly, Monthly, Yearly and Forever?
Ask yourself deeply inside, are you happy?
I always believe that life is too short to waste
If situation allows, I will do anything
For myself, my loved ones and even my friends
As I live like I am dying
We tend to be naive that it will last forever
Somehow men expects women to think and women expect men to feel
Honestly, how many of you can do that?
Saying "I do" to be with someone you really love
Promising to take care of them
Affirming to be with them no matter how
But think again and try to look at the divorce rate
A 3-second decision may lead to a disaster
If you ever wonder whether you are right
After several years of arguements
Misperceptions or even comparison
If you are able to sustain love long enough, you will get married
But out of those who stay together, half of it are actually not fulfilled
Staying together out of loyalty and obligation
Never dare to start all over again
Even if they can assure that greater happiness is ahead
What is the meaning of life?
Staying at your comfort zone
Practising your daily chores and routine work
Daily, Weekly, Monthly, Yearly and Forever?
Ask yourself deeply inside, are you happy?
I always believe that life is too short to waste
If situation allows, I will do anything
For myself, my loved ones and even my friends
As I live like I am dying
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