Who comprises in FAMILY?
Father
And
Mother
I
Love
You
Without our parents
There won't be us
Without love
There won't be life
People say love life
Love ourselves
Love our family
Love our friends
But how deep your love would be?
Will you sacrifice for the one you love?
Will you die for the one you love?
And will you accept every single thing of your loved one?
Saying I love you only requires 3 seconds
Explaining how you love him/her requires 3 hours
But to prove your love towards him/her , you need a lifetime
Time doesn't stop
Time doesn't wait
Shouldn't we just treasure our time left and spend them with our loved ones?
The world is changing
The people is changing
But how about a person's heart towards their loved ones?
Would you still be with him if he is permanently disabled?
Would you still take care of her if she is diagnosed with cancer?
And would you still love your partner if he/she is infected with STD/AIDS?
Sometimes, we tend to keep things within ourselves
Worrying how people would view at us Minding how people would judge us
When you are just a black sheep of the family
Friday, November 4, 2011
Monday, August 8, 2011
Choice of life
Everyone has a choice in life
To choose their own friends
To choose their own path
And to choose the things that one wants in life
Have you ever have a deep thought before?
Whether you have set your goals of life
Whether your goals are achievable
And when are you going to achieve them?
I always believe in planning
If you have a plan, it might work
If you do not have any plans, you'll fail!
Simply because you chose to be a failure
Everyone likes to say "Stay +ve"
Some say "Stay strong*
And majority would say "You can do it"
But how many of them would truly understand?
NONE!
This is your choice of life..
To choose their own friends
To choose their own path
And to choose the things that one wants in life
Have you ever have a deep thought before?
Whether you have set your goals of life
Whether your goals are achievable
And when are you going to achieve them?
I always believe in planning
If you have a plan, it might work
If you do not have any plans, you'll fail!
Simply because you chose to be a failure
Everyone likes to say "Stay +ve"
Some say "Stay strong*
And majority would say "You can do it"
But how many of them would truly understand?
NONE!
This is your choice of life..
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Responsibilities in life
Human being on earth
Has their own responsibilites
In work, in family and in their lives
But how many of us here
That obey with our responsibilities
Obey because u think u should
Or just because u are obligated?
As an employee, u have to be responsible at work
As a child, u have to be obedient to your parents
As a spouse, u have to be responsible to your family
And as a man on earth, u need to be responsible on what u do in life
Though we tend to remind ourselves
Life is very short, enjoy and treasure
But we would have to be responsible too
For work, family and things we have done throughout our lives
Mistakes
Everyone does that
Which sometimes we cant forget or forgive ourselves
Until the day we die
But why cant we just let it go?
Since it has passed
Nothing can be done
To change the way it was
All these are due to responsibilities
We find ourselves responsibilities on the things we have done
But the decision is always on our hands
U are the one who make the call, darn
People tend to say
Think twice before u decide
What u sow is what u get
But how true are these quotes to us?
There are times
Where effort and hardwork
Being planted deep within
With just a hope to grow
Hope doesnt guarantee success
Its just an expectation
Which may lead to disappointment
That makes our lives miserable
The more u expect
The more u feel upset
When the outcome
Is not as what u have been hoping for
Whatever happens
Always remember within our hearts
What is happening today
Is cause by what has happened yesterday
Just be responsible
On our choices of life
Live with it
And stay with it.
Has their own responsibilites
In work, in family and in their lives
But how many of us here
That obey with our responsibilities
Obey because u think u should
Or just because u are obligated?
As an employee, u have to be responsible at work
As a child, u have to be obedient to your parents
As a spouse, u have to be responsible to your family
And as a man on earth, u need to be responsible on what u do in life
Though we tend to remind ourselves
Life is very short, enjoy and treasure
But we would have to be responsible too
For work, family and things we have done throughout our lives
Mistakes
Everyone does that
Which sometimes we cant forget or forgive ourselves
Until the day we die
But why cant we just let it go?
Since it has passed
Nothing can be done
To change the way it was
All these are due to responsibilities
We find ourselves responsibilities on the things we have done
But the decision is always on our hands
U are the one who make the call, darn
People tend to say
Think twice before u decide
What u sow is what u get
But how true are these quotes to us?
There are times
Where effort and hardwork
Being planted deep within
With just a hope to grow
Hope doesnt guarantee success
Its just an expectation
Which may lead to disappointment
That makes our lives miserable
The more u expect
The more u feel upset
When the outcome
Is not as what u have been hoping for
Whatever happens
Always remember within our hearts
What is happening today
Is cause by what has happened yesterday
Just be responsible
On our choices of life
Live with it
And stay with it.
Monday, March 21, 2011
Doubtful Junction
Have u ever stop at a junction without knowing where to turn?
Have u ever stop at the roadside thinking of where to go?
Or have u ever stop in the middle of the centrepoint being clueless of which way of life u intend to lead?
Indecisive
Doubtful
Uncertain
Lack of confidence
I have it all
As time goes by
I tend to ask myself
Am I leading the correct path?
Should I go forward or make a U-turn?
Life is never easy
As there are various things in life
That we would really have to consider
As there is no turning back for some decisions made
I have always been trying to be certain
Not to think too much
As most of my friends commented
I tend to move forward
As time would not wait
And time could not be wasted
By just being doubtful all the times
I tend to follow my instint
As most women do
Make the decision
And just do it
Also at times I begin to doubt
If I have make the correct decision
But analysing it after the decision
Isn't it wasting time?
But why can't people think wisely
Make up their mind
And convinced to pick the correct one?
Sometimes I just can't wait
Thinking of the time wasted
I rather just go ahead
To do things I felt happy and blissful
And to avoid myself being at the doubtful junction again
Have u ever stop at the roadside thinking of where to go?
Or have u ever stop in the middle of the centrepoint being clueless of which way of life u intend to lead?
Indecisive
Doubtful
Uncertain
Lack of confidence
I have it all
As time goes by
I tend to ask myself
Am I leading the correct path?
Should I go forward or make a U-turn?
Life is never easy
As there are various things in life
That we would really have to consider
As there is no turning back for some decisions made
I have always been trying to be certain
Not to think too much
As most of my friends commented
I tend to move forward
As time would not wait
And time could not be wasted
By just being doubtful all the times
I tend to follow my instint
As most women do
Make the decision
And just do it
Also at times I begin to doubt
If I have make the correct decision
But analysing it after the decision
Isn't it wasting time?
But why can't people think wisely
Make up their mind
And convinced to pick the correct one?
Sometimes I just can't wait
Thinking of the time wasted
I rather just go ahead
To do things I felt happy and blissful
And to avoid myself being at the doubtful junction again
Friday, February 25, 2011
Determination Day
Some say Wealth is important No Money No Talk
Some say Love is essential
No Love No Sex
But how important is Health?
In these 9187 days
I have seen many
I have gone thru it
And why again?
The white lightings
The white bed linens
The white uniforms
That usually comes with red
Everyone will face it
Twice in your life
That’s the least
And if so, you’re lucky!
Unique
Different from others
Experience
Ups and down
Sweet and sour
I have had all that
Go on
Move on
I tend to calm myself
Whenever I really need to face
Difficult situations
Where no one can understand
Where no one can really help me
The story begins with me
I started it
I go along with it
And I have to end the story
Thru good or hard times
I am the one
The only one
Deep within me
Life is not easy at all
Since 9th Feb 1985
Struggling, Striving
Just for a living
Treasure the moments
As the time has yet to come
Be strong, face it alone
I have decided to go for it
Lots of love
From friends and buddy
I have got it
And I appreciate that
Thanks for the support
Thanks for the respect
And thanks for being with me
This is the day
Where I am really determined
And I will be fine!
Some say Love is essential
No Love No Sex
But how important is Health?
In these 9187 days
I have seen many
I have gone thru it
And why again?
The white lightings
The white bed linens
The white uniforms
That usually comes with red
Everyone will face it
Twice in your life
That’s the least
And if so, you’re lucky!
Unique
Different from others
Experience
Ups and down
Sweet and sour
I have had all that
Go on
Move on
I tend to calm myself
Whenever I really need to face
Difficult situations
Where no one can understand
Where no one can really help me
The story begins with me
I started it
I go along with it
And I have to end the story
Thru good or hard times
I am the one
The only one
Deep within me
Life is not easy at all
Since 9th Feb 1985
Struggling, Striving
Just for a living
Treasure the moments
As the time has yet to come
Be strong, face it alone
I have decided to go for it
Lots of love
From friends and buddy
I have got it
And I appreciate that
Thanks for the support
Thanks for the respect
And thanks for being with me
This is the day
Where I am really determined
And I will be fine!
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Single? You are not alone..
1. Let people know you are single and looking to meet someone new.
It’s the perfect time of year to broadcast to your friends that you single and searching and that you are more than willing to accompany another single person to a holiday event should they need a date. Announce to your family that you’re single this holiday season, and because of that, you might very well invite someone to the festivities who is also single but doesn’t have family living close by to celebrate with. In the end, get the word out and expand your social network.
2. Accept every holiday invitation.
Unless a holiday party is a challenge to get to or you know an “ex” will be present, make a point of accepting every holiday invitation that comes your way – no matter how unusual, farfetched or random. In fact, the more events you attend the more comfortable you will become to step outside of your safety zone and expose yourself to new groups of people.
3. Be prepared for spontaneous holiday cheer.
As a single person, it may be assumed that your calendar is much more flexible than a parent with three kids. Therefore it may not be uncommon for someone like yourself to receive last-minute invites to holiday functions. Make sure you have one or two holiday outfits ready to wear that are clean, appropriate and festive.
4. Reconnect with old friends, and/or bring a date to an event.
If you must have a date for an event, it is perfectly fine to consider an old friend or someone you know that is also single and searching. The evening can be a fun way to stroll around and socialize. Tell your single friend that you’ll be game to be their “date” for the next holiday gathering s/he might be invited to. It’s a great way to network and meet new people!
5. Plan for mistletoe and stolen kisses.
If you are single, there is no harm in hanging around the Mistletoe. This way, you can strike up a conversation about the silly mistletoe tradition and even cop a few great kisses! While many of the recipients may not be what you’re looking for, you never know….. people meet in the strangest places and you might just like someone that has been strolling around throughout the night. Hopefully, you can make eye contact with them and get them to walk over to your locale….under the mistletoe!
It’s the perfect time of year to broadcast to your friends that you single and searching and that you are more than willing to accompany another single person to a holiday event should they need a date. Announce to your family that you’re single this holiday season, and because of that, you might very well invite someone to the festivities who is also single but doesn’t have family living close by to celebrate with. In the end, get the word out and expand your social network.
2. Accept every holiday invitation.
Unless a holiday party is a challenge to get to or you know an “ex” will be present, make a point of accepting every holiday invitation that comes your way – no matter how unusual, farfetched or random. In fact, the more events you attend the more comfortable you will become to step outside of your safety zone and expose yourself to new groups of people.
3. Be prepared for spontaneous holiday cheer.
As a single person, it may be assumed that your calendar is much more flexible than a parent with three kids. Therefore it may not be uncommon for someone like yourself to receive last-minute invites to holiday functions. Make sure you have one or two holiday outfits ready to wear that are clean, appropriate and festive.
4. Reconnect with old friends, and/or bring a date to an event.
If you must have a date for an event, it is perfectly fine to consider an old friend or someone you know that is also single and searching. The evening can be a fun way to stroll around and socialize. Tell your single friend that you’ll be game to be their “date” for the next holiday gathering s/he might be invited to. It’s a great way to network and meet new people!
5. Plan for mistletoe and stolen kisses.
If you are single, there is no harm in hanging around the Mistletoe. This way, you can strike up a conversation about the silly mistletoe tradition and even cop a few great kisses! While many of the recipients may not be what you’re looking for, you never know….. people meet in the strangest places and you might just like someone that has been strolling around throughout the night. Hopefully, you can make eye contact with them and get them to walk over to your locale….under the mistletoe!
Holiday Dating Dilemmas
1. Gifts With holiday dating, the issue of whether or not to exchange gifts can be confusing. If you’re dating casually, you shouldn’t feel obligated to give a gift just because it’s the holidays.
However, if you feel you would like to give your date something thoughtful, keep it inexpensive but something they would appreciate. It’s good to pay attention to what he likes, so that he will know you care, and that you put some thought into your gift: perhaps a book on a special topic she discussed or a bottle of scotch that he has boosted about.
Another great gift idea is pre-arranging a future date together– whether it be tickets to a play or ball game or an evening of skating in the park. Remember, certain gifts are going to imply certain intentions. Giving your gal lingerie will certainly hint at the idea that you’re looking for a more sexual relationship, which may be great or awkward. Be careful about splurging for gifts dealing with grooming or exercise as they may backfire and cause your date to believe that you are dissatisfied with the way they look and want to change them.
2. Family Gatherings
When contemplating inviting a date to a family gathering, first consider whether an extra guest is welcome. Is there room at the dinner table and will your family feel comfortable with a virtual stranger joining them?
The nature of the gathering can also determine the appropriateness of inviting someone special. If it’s a cocktail party with extended family and close friends, then a date will be appropriate. However, if it’s an intimate gift exchange amongst siblings than perhaps inviting your friend later would be a better bet.
Consider your date’s feelings too. Will s/he feel comfortable with off-key family Christmas caroling or being asked my your nosy aunt when you two will be getting married because you “look so adorable together.”
3. The Office Party
With dinner, drinks, and dancing, why not bring along someone to share in the fun? Having a date can also prevent a potentially embarrassing interoffice hook-up. However, turning an office party into an opportunity for holiday dating presents a few concerns similar to family gatherings.
Are dates welcome at the event? If your company is budget-conscious, they may not allow dates to come. Will your date enjoy spending time with your co-workers? Since you’re the only one s/he knows, it’s especially important to make sure you don’t abandon your date during the evening.
4. Differing Beliefs
If you’re seeing someone that has a different religious belief, holiday dating can highlight conflicts in your spiritual thought process/beliefs. The key to avoiding problems is to be open and honest about your comfort level at all times.
Don’t feel obligated to go to your date’s house of worship if you feel uncomfortable partaking in the religious rituals. As long as you are open and communicate your concerns you both can have a better time getting through the holiday season. It may also allow you the opportunity to see if you are both compatible in this area and if your relationship has the potential to last.
5. Work, Work And More Work
If you find that the case you are working on or the budget deal is cutting into your personal life, hopefully you can steal away and attend at least one gathering that will be meaningful this holiday season.
A lot of busy professionals find themselves working against the clock to finish projects before the chime strikes twelve on New Years and we are now into another tax year. Try to pace it, get your sleep but find some balance between work and play–it’s important for your mental sanity as well as your emotional well being.
However, if you feel you would like to give your date something thoughtful, keep it inexpensive but something they would appreciate. It’s good to pay attention to what he likes, so that he will know you care, and that you put some thought into your gift: perhaps a book on a special topic she discussed or a bottle of scotch that he has boosted about.
Another great gift idea is pre-arranging a future date together– whether it be tickets to a play or ball game or an evening of skating in the park. Remember, certain gifts are going to imply certain intentions. Giving your gal lingerie will certainly hint at the idea that you’re looking for a more sexual relationship, which may be great or awkward. Be careful about splurging for gifts dealing with grooming or exercise as they may backfire and cause your date to believe that you are dissatisfied with the way they look and want to change them.
2. Family Gatherings
When contemplating inviting a date to a family gathering, first consider whether an extra guest is welcome. Is there room at the dinner table and will your family feel comfortable with a virtual stranger joining them?
The nature of the gathering can also determine the appropriateness of inviting someone special. If it’s a cocktail party with extended family and close friends, then a date will be appropriate. However, if it’s an intimate gift exchange amongst siblings than perhaps inviting your friend later would be a better bet.
Consider your date’s feelings too. Will s/he feel comfortable with off-key family Christmas caroling or being asked my your nosy aunt when you two will be getting married because you “look so adorable together.”
3. The Office Party
With dinner, drinks, and dancing, why not bring along someone to share in the fun? Having a date can also prevent a potentially embarrassing interoffice hook-up. However, turning an office party into an opportunity for holiday dating presents a few concerns similar to family gatherings.
Are dates welcome at the event? If your company is budget-conscious, they may not allow dates to come. Will your date enjoy spending time with your co-workers? Since you’re the only one s/he knows, it’s especially important to make sure you don’t abandon your date during the evening.
4. Differing Beliefs
If you’re seeing someone that has a different religious belief, holiday dating can highlight conflicts in your spiritual thought process/beliefs. The key to avoiding problems is to be open and honest about your comfort level at all times.
Don’t feel obligated to go to your date’s house of worship if you feel uncomfortable partaking in the religious rituals. As long as you are open and communicate your concerns you both can have a better time getting through the holiday season. It may also allow you the opportunity to see if you are both compatible in this area and if your relationship has the potential to last.
5. Work, Work And More Work
If you find that the case you are working on or the budget deal is cutting into your personal life, hopefully you can steal away and attend at least one gathering that will be meaningful this holiday season.
A lot of busy professionals find themselves working against the clock to finish projects before the chime strikes twelve on New Years and we are now into another tax year. Try to pace it, get your sleep but find some balance between work and play–it’s important for your mental sanity as well as your emotional well being.
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